JADE

March 17, 2009 - 12:00 pm

In London for some work and my 1st priority wanting to meet Jade, which is why I pre-poned my visit. Always felt she and I were connected in a strange way… I believe she was a catalyst and the architect of my fame in Britain… Felt terrible for what she had to go through after the Show, and I screamed my lungs hoarse to save the situation… but in vain. Anyway life brought us together again through Big Boss and that’s where we met and spoke after 2yrs… and went on to becoming friends… I really discovered a new Jade compared to the one I saw in Big Brother. I admired her spirit and the way she coped with her illness, I spoke to her a few days prior to her wedding, she sounded very happy, sadly I couldn’t make it. Thought I’d meet her when I come down, but then I heard about her health deteriorating and I rushed down hoping to see her. Little did I know that the last time I spoke to her would actually be the last time…

This experience has made me realize - Life’s too short to hold any grudges. All the arguments are so futile when you see the larger picture… am happy in a way I haven’t got to see her, it would’ve depressed me no end. I always want to remember her smiling, the feisty strong gregarious Jade, a true Trooper! it’s a helpless feeling, as long as she knows am here, which I don’t think she’s aware, cause she is unconscious, heavily drugged ‘cause the pain is excruciating - Max Clifford told me (we share the same publicist). I  feel even worse ‘cause maybe I could’ve met her if I was here 2 days earlier… Anyway in the current scenario I totally understand what the family must be going through and I respect their privacy and hope she and her family is able to cope with this inexplicable pain. It just makes me hold on to my near and dear ones and value them even more, cause life’s so unpredictable… this is the dance of life… enjoy every moment of the dance, cause you never know when the music will stop… you are in my prayers Jade… You are destiny’s child!

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16 Responses to “JADE”

  1. ShannonLadd Says:

    Very kind and generous of you to have concern & sympathy for Jade, although the hoopla in papers like “The Sun”, “Daily Mail” and others is a bit overblown when you consider the awful situations in other parts of the world. Shilpa, all your fans are waiting for your new movies & videos. You are fabulous. Your new gallery photos are wonderful, especially 34/55 on your site. Thanks for your blog; take care & stay safe.

  2. nav Says:

    hi shilpa i can understand the way ur feeling but dont loose hope coz miracles do happen. we all pray that Jade does not have to go through alot of pain. life is very unpredictable and we have to follow the ways of destiny. keep courage!!
    luv,
    nav

  3. Lauri Says:

    It really come straight from the bottom of your hart, dear Shilpa. You are right in value of our nearest peoples, we must remember them, all the time. Life is short.
    I believe you can dance, even this part of life, and music will go on… All the best for your visit in London and prays for Jade.

    Love, yours Lauri

    PS Welcome visit to Finland :)

  4. Bidisha Says:

    hi shilpa,
    its really the ultimate feelings. if every one think in this way that life is so short an we should try to good for ourselver as well as others, then the earth would be heaven.
    hope every thing will be all right.
    regards,
    bidisha.

  5. nikeshponnen Says:

    Dear shilpaji..

    Life is a miraculous one.It is keeping something which we do not expect at all.

    (”quoted from a malayalam writer”)

    Nikeshponnen
    http://www.nikeshponnen.blogspot.com

  6. M4C Gunnoo Says:

    Hi Ms Shetty
    You are very right about not having any grudges against anyone. We never know what is round the corner. Life must go on. There is a lot of people out there who suffer in silence.
    At least women would have got a message about Cancer and early screening.

    I am a Cardiac Rehabilitation Nurse Specialist and have had experience looking after patients with cancer of the lungs. I happen to work at the Heart and Lung hospital next to the Royal Marsden where Jade has been having treatment. The week before camera men were camped by the hospital, they make a living by selling pictures of famous people.
    Let us pray for those who are dying and that they have a peaceful and comfortable when the eventually leave their loved one/s.
    Have a lovely day. The sun is shining and London looks at its best.
    M4C x

  7. M4C Gunnoo Says:

    Typing errors: I meant to say: they are peaceful and comfortable.
    Thanks
    M4C

  8. sachin Says:

    hi,shilpa i can understand when the powerfull& sucses my friends and anybody are this stage ,I its feels.

  9. jatinder38 Says:

    we feel sorry for jade and her children.she is just 27 years old.well,you are absolutely right.life is very small.there should be no place for hatred,enemity,personal grudges or jealousy.we should enjoy life to fullest and spread peace and love.this should be the motto of our life that no one get hurt by our any action.
    as a person,you know jade better,but personally i think she is a nice girl,not that bad.may god bless her.

  10. glblwarming Says:

    We rise from Dust and end in Dust ..thats what is the Biblical Implication of life.It is very Sad that JADE has to confront this as such a early age .Your vist will definately make a difference Dr.Shetty .
    As I have been conventionaly asking you Dr.Shetty , Hope you have read my Communication which I posted to you on your S1GLOBAL address from CRTL LONDON .
    From what life we live ..icaons like you can help adopt,address and apply such things to reduce Cimate Changes and Global Warming .
    May God Bles Jade and all .
    Regards

  11. cutie_pie Says:

    Hey Shilpa i know how you are feeling about Jade, your right its a short life and everyone should appreciate their dear ones. because we never know whats going to happen the next second. we all have to deal with it because”life is not fair” don’t regret anything as a friend you have done your part. Recently my aunt passed and i couldn’t even go to her funeral but i did what i could and that’s just how much we can do as a human being, to keep everyone happy to the best of our ability and accept the fact of losing someone in my case.

  12. rajatmehtaa Says:

    hello shilpa

    i read your all feelings about jade….in last time she is wooried about her kids…thats genuine….just 27 year age is not enough but no one can do nothing at this time….
    i lost my mom 3year ago with same problem…and i know how we face all this…really itss too hard…i have no words to explain alll this…..my all wishes for jade…and for her kids……….

  13. saeed haan Says:

    shilpa i always loved you becouse how you look but i love you more now for how you look and how great are you.

    Said Han

  14. lucky1559 Says:

    Hello shilpa
    I am from canada and I am trying to promote my new website http://www.lifemarry.com
    Thanks

  15. mishra.pankaj Says:

    Hey Shilpa i know how you are feeling about Jade, your right its a short life and everyone should appreciate their dear ones. because we never know whats going to happen the next second

  16. Priyanka Sawant Says:

    Really impressive………..showz da spirit of india!!!

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